Spending Christmas alone can feel confronting — especially when the world tells us the day is supposed to look a certain way.
We’re surrounded by images of crowded tables, matching pyjamas, endless food, gift exchanges, noise, and tradition. So when your reality looks quieter, slower, or completely different, it’s easy to assume something has gone wrong.
But the problem isn’t your Christmas.
It’s the expectation.
The truth is, many people find themselves spending Christmas alone for countless reasons — life changes, distance from family, finances, work, grief, shifting relationships, or simply because this season of life calls for something more peaceful. You’re not unusual, broken, or missing out. You’re just human.
And here’s something that rarely gets said: a solo Christmas can be deeply comforting.
Without expectations to perform, spend, travel, or please anyone else, the day becomes yours. You get to decide how it looks, how it feels, and what you actually need — whether that’s rest, distraction, tradition, or something entirely new.
That doesn’t mean you have to feel cheerful.
It doesn’t mean you have to “make the most of it.”
And it certainly doesn’t mean you need to force gratitude.
It simply means giving yourself permission to honour where you are.
Maybe that looks like a slow morning and comfort food.
Maybe it’s watching movies, going for a walk, journaling, or doing absolutely nothing.
Maybe it’s crying, or laughing, or a mix of both.
The beauty of spending Christmas alone is that you don’t owe the day to anyone but yourself.
Below, you’ll find 42 ideas for spending Christmas alone — not to fix the day, but to help you shape it in a way that feels gentle, grounding, and true to you.
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Ideas for Spending Christmas Alone
Rest Comfort & Slow Living
Focusing on rest, comfort, and slow living can make spending Christmas alone feel nurturing rather than lonely, especially if your body and mind need downtime.
Lazy Morning in Bed
Kick off your blissful day of spending Christmas alone by sleeping in as late as you damn well please. No need to feel envious of all the sleep-deprived parents who’ve been up with kids since 4 am!
The mere act of having no alarms or schedules to get up to is pure bliss. Snuggle up with a book or start the day with a podcast or meditation, and totally enjoy an unconventional Christmas morning.
Curl Up with a Good Book
Start with a morning ritual, then curl up for an entire, uninterrupted day with an awesome book. That’s a pretty damn epic way to stop and breathe for a minute in this crazy, busy world.
You can move from the bed to the garden, to a steaming hot bath, to the armchair in front of the fire. Or, if you have hot Christmases like we do here in Australia, close up the blinds and put the aircon on, or head out to a beautiful shady spot under the trees.
Netflix Binge
Get into your comfiest pyjamas or daggy clothes and hit the couch for the day with some movies or a good series. I do recommend actually cleaning your teeth, brushing your hair and putting on fresh pjs in the morning, though, you’ll feel much fresher for it.
Watch Christmas Movies
If you genuinely love Christmas movies and don’t think they’ll just make you sad, then line them up and have a Christmas movie marathon.
Candles & Fairy Lights
Set the mood for your indulgent day while spending Christmas alone with candles, incense and fairy lights. You’ve got instant magic, right there!
You can find a wide variety of fairy lights on eBay, including USB battery-powered, solar-powered and LED.
Completely Ignore Christmas
Maybe you’re just plain old sick of Christmas and all the BS that comes with it. I give you full permission to completely erase the 25th December from your calendar and to treat it just like any other day if that’s your wish.
Home Reset & Fresh Starts
Using Christmas as a reset can help you feel organised, grounded, and ready to move into the new year with clarity.
Declutter
If decluttering is something that you get excited about, then give the house a huge purge. Recycle and donate as much as you can. See if there’s anything that you can sell and make some cash to go towards something for yourself.
For more inspiration, here are some tips on wardrobe decluttering and culling unloved shoes.
Spring Clean
Cleaning the house from top to bottom is extremely therapeutic and will keep you busy for hours. Turn up the music, pour yourself a drink and get busy. The best thing is that you will be clearing out all of that old, stagnant energy, freshening up the place for the new year!
Decorate the House
If Christmas decorations remind you of a happy childhood and bring you lots of Christmas cheer, then decorate the hell out of your house. Who cares if you will be the only one to enjoy them – this Christmas it’s all about you!
Create a Budget
If you enjoy organising your finances, spend some time fine-tuning your budget for the coming year. This will help you really maximise your money, keep on track with bills and expenses, plus work towards the things that you want to achieve.
A good tip is to have a handful of different accounts (I have eleven!) so that you can categorise your money and create ‘buckets’ for easy financial organisation.
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Start a Journal
Dedicate a nice notebook to your daily or weekly thoughts and feelings. No one will ever see what’s in your journal, so let loose and express everything that you need and want to say (the good, the bad, and the ugly!). Journaling is a very healing ritual to have in your life.
Create a Bucket List
Kick your feet up and put together a list of things that you’d like to achieve throughout the coming year. Include all of the things, both big and small. You could even take it to the next level – type it up in Word, then print it out with little check boxes to tick off as you accomplish each item throughout the year.
Food, Treats & Sensory Comforts
Food and sensory comforts can turn a solo Christmas into a soothing experience that supports both emotional and physical well-being.
Cook Your Favourite Dish
Just because you’re not cooking for a football team, doesn’t mean you can’t put just as much effort into your own Christmas lunch or dinner… if you enjoy cooking that is.
While you’re at it, why not pour yourself a nice cocktail to complement your meal? Here are over 50 Christmas cocktail ideas to choose from.
However, if you hate cooking, skip to the next idea!
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Order Takeaway
If you don’t love cooking or just don’t feel like it, then don’t cook. Order your favourite takeaway instead. Whether it’s something extravagant that’s a total treat, or just your favourite comfort food, let someone else do the cooking while spending this Christmas alone.
Buy Yourself a Gift
Make sure to get yourself something special for Christmas. You can either buy it before the day and have it ready to open. Or, you can have fun browsing online on the day, giving you a parcel to look forward to in the coming weeks.
| 🌿 READ: Clutter-Free Gift Ideas → |
DIY Spa Day
Enjoy spending Christmas alone by giving yourself a DIY spa day. Do a facial, wax, shave, paint your nails, then finish off with a long, hot bath.
Make sure you’ve got a stash of bath bombs and bath salts before the day. Light some candles, put on some relaxing music or a podcast and totally unwind. To make it extra special, order yourself a pre-made pamper pack like these ones on eBay.
Movement, Nature & Gentle Adventure
Movement and time outdoors can provide perspective, regulate emotions, and help break up the day when spending Christmas alone.
Get Out into Nature
Where is your favourite kind of natural location – beach, forest, mountains, bush?
Head there and take some time to just enjoy the moment by yourself. Pack some lunch and a book and make the most of the day. If there are cafes and restaurants around, treat yourself to a nice meal and a drink or coffee.
There are plenty of ways to spend Christmas outdoors when you look around to see what’s available in your area.
Go For a Walk
To avoid cabin fever and ensure that you still feel a part of the world, get outside and go for a stroll.
Be mindful that if hearing, smelling and seeing other people doing Christmas is likely to trigger heavy emotions, then maybe skip this idea and opt for staying at home in your happy cave.
Exercise
If going to the gym or working out is your happy place, then go for gold. You could go for a run or walk through a nice park that has free public exercise equipment along the way.
You’ll feel super pumped and motivated for working on your body on Christmas day, instead of binge eating and drinking with the rest of the planet.
Potter in the Garden
If you like gardening, enjoy a slow day outside. If you’re new to gardening, head to the nursery before Christmas Day and get yourself a few nice plants, pots and potting mix. Learn how to repot plants and spruce up the house at the same time.
You could try a starter kit, or have a go at planting some seedlings. This is a skill that will reach far beyond just one day.
‘Grow Your Own’ kits to try (found on eBay):
Solo Road Trip
Find somewhere on the map that you’ve never visited and take a solo road trip. If you’ve got a dog, take your fur baby with you for a day of adventure. Explore somewhere completely new and see where the day takes you.
Book a Night Away
Treat yourself to a solo night away. You could go for somewhere local or opt for a total tree change. Consider a Bed and Breakfast in the country or a cabin in the mountains. Or you could book an apartment in the city or an Airbnb along the coast.
Whatever your ideal pamper night would be – do that for yourself. You don’t even need to talk to anyone besides the staff at the bookings desk if you want to remain solo and anonymous.
Creativity, Learning & Play
Creative and playful activities can bring lightness, focus, and a sense of achievement to a quiet Christmas Day.
Learn a New Skill
You know that crafty or DIY activity you’ve been wanting to try forever? Why not spend the day giving it a crack? Order yourself a starter kit or put on a YouTube tutorial, and off you go.
Finish a Project
If you’re guilty of having one or many projects on the go that you desperately want to finish, but never have time to, then make your Christmas alone that day.
You’ll be kept busy and feel a great sense of accomplishment at the end of the day. What more could one ask for?
Play a Game
Not a board game, but a digital one. There are loads of games to relax with by yourself. If you’re into gaming, jump on the Xbox, Playstation or PC and fill your day with action and adventure.
If you’re not a gamer, there are millions of free games online worth checking out.
Online game ideas:
- Word games
- Block games
- Puzzle & card games
- Hidden object games
- Adventure, shooting, sports & racing games
Do a Puzzle
When was the last time you sat down at the dining table with a puzzle? If you’re anything like me, probably not since you were a kid. Get yourself a really cool puzzle before Christmas Day, so that you’re all ready to go.
Toy stores and op shops usually have a whole section dedicated to puzzles, not to mention eBay and other online stores.
Take Yourself to a Movie
There is a special kinda energy to Christmas Day when you’re out and about. Soak up some of that good energy and go see a movie.
Pre-book yourself in for a Gold Class screening with recliner seats, snacks, drinks… go all out! You could even catch an Uber so you don’t have to drive yourself home.
Visit a Museum or Gallery
See if there is a museum, gallery, exhibition or show open on Christmas Day in your town or city that would appeal to you. Think outside the box and get Googling to find someplace new that you’ve never visited before.
Allow yourself to be transported from spending Christmas alone into a totally different era or space. You can wander at your leisure and enjoy being in the world, but not a part of the world, for just one day.
Connection, Community & Giving
Connection on Christmas doesn’t have to be all-or-nothing — small, optional moments of community can be enough.
Phone / Video Chats
Even though you may not be able to be there in person with your loved ones, you can still catch up with a phone call or video call.
NOTE: If you think phone calls on Christmas Day will just make you feel sad, you can respectfully tell people that you’ll connect with them another day. Remember, this day is all about what makes YOU happy.
Tag Along to Someone Else’s Christmas
I remember my first solo Christmas, where the kids spent the day at their Dad’s. As it turns out, my good friend was also separated from her ex and didn’t have her kids on Christmas Day either.
So, we tagged along to her friend’s Christmas Day BBQ and ended up having a great time. With only ourselves to worry about, we had a stress-free Christmas with plenty of food and drinks, then simply called a cab home at the end of the night.
Maybe you have a friend or family member who’d be more than happy for you to tag along to their shindig for the day.
Host an Orphan’s Christmas
If you still want to have a social Christmas, ask around to see if any of your friends, family or neighbours are also without something to do.
You can all come together for a meal and/or some drinks on Christmas Day and enjoy each other’s company. Keep it simple by getting everyone to BYO drinks and a share plate. The low-fuss planning will keep things casual and spontaneous. Who knows what the day will bring?!
Volunteer
There are plenty of community services that will be at their busiest during the Christmas period. Although you might be having a solo Christmas alone, you may want to donate your time to helping a brother or sister out.
Or, I’m sure the old folks at the nursing home would love to have someone to talk to if they’re also spending Christmas alone. Think food banks, food kitchens, women’s shelters, nursing homes, animal shelters and other community groups and organisations.
Adopt a Pet
To be clear, I DO NOT endorse getting a pet to fill a void, then ditching it after the holiday season.
However, if you are an animal lover and have been contemplating getting a pet anyway, Christmas is the perfect time to head to the animal shelter. In fact, within the month or so after Christmas is when the shelters are at their busiest with ‘gift pets’ that people have decided they don’t want.
Rescuing an animal is just about the kindest thing you can do this holiday season.
Release, Body & Emotional Expression
Making space for release and emotional expression can help you process the year and mark Christmas in a way that feels honest.
Burn & Release Ceremony
While you’re spending Christmas alone, perform a burn and release ceremony. This is a great way to release any past hurts, negativities, anger and resentment that you may still be holding onto.
How to do a Burn & Release ceremony:
- Create a space to burn a piece of paper (fireplace, concrete driveway, glass/metal bowl, fire pit).
- Set a clear intention on what you want to achieve and get yourself into a peaceful state of being.
- Write down on a piece of paper whatever it is you want to let go of. It could be a list of words, a letter to someone, or an expression of how you’re feeling.
- Light the piece of paper on fire with a candle or lighter and watch the paper burn and disintegrate. Take a deep breath and exhale, releasing it all back to the universe.
Get Your Gear Off
Since you’ve got the place to yourself, enjoy the freedom of being a complete nudist for the whole day without a care in the world!
P.S. It’s probably best to make any video calls before going nude!
Work
If you actually really love your job and have the option of working on Christmas day, you could spend the uninterrupted time being super productive.
If your job is in an actual workplace and you have the option to go in and enjoy the holiday feels, that might be something that appeals to you. You may even get paid some overtime in the process, depending on your situation.
Mental Health, Reflection & Emotional Care
Ditch Social Media
Make Christmas Day a social media-free day. Remember, people only put their best (or fake) stuff online, so scrolling through Instagram or Facebook on Christmas may just make you feel FOMO.
What people don’t show is the ridiculous amounts of stress, cooking, driving, over-tired kids and dysfunctional families that also make up their day. All of which, my friend, you are completely free from today!
Find an Inspirational Podcast
Think about a topic that you want to be totally inspired by (finances, personal development, solo parenting, freedom, spirituality, health and fitness, etc.). Spending Christmas alone can be the perfect time to reflect, build yourself up, learn and get motivated for the year ahead.
Listen to All Your Favourite Songs
Ditch the crappy Christmas carols and create a playlist of all your most favourite songs, then turn it up! This is now your soundtrack for Christmas Day.
Meditate
Whether you’re a meditation newbie or a pro, anyone can benefit from a relaxing meditation. Find a guided meditation on YouTube, get yourself comfortable either inside or out in nature and quiet the mind for a while (without the threat of interruptions).
Gratitude
Write a list of every single thing in your life that you’re truly grateful for. From your comfy bed to your job, your home, your kids and pets, special people, experiences, peace, time freedom, etc. Really feel that gratitude fill your body and soul.
Congratulate yourself
And finally, but most importantly, don’t forget to congratulate yourself for being the amazing being that you are, plus for nailing your solo Christmas and loving the heck out of it!
Just remember that spending Christmas alone may feel sad and bring up all sorts of emotions for you… and that’s okay. Don’t feel like you need to push those emotions away, sit with them and feel the feels.
If you need to spend the day emotionally purging, then maybe that’s exactly how the day needs to look for you. You’ll hopefully feel better on the other side of it all.
Remember, 25th December is quite literally just a date on the calendar. There is nothing that we need to be doing on that day. Give yourself permission to spend it however you wish!
Spending Christmas alone doesn’t have to be something you simply endure — it can be an opportunity to slow down, listen to yourself, and create a day that genuinely supports where you are right now.
However you choose to spend it, let this be a reminder that your way is valid.
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